Everyone’s gone through the guilt trip part, of course – especially if you on this list is trying to DO something with your life (and most of you on the list ARE).
Or have at some point.
And of course, doing something worthwhile requires sacrifice which the indisciplined, LAZY, and “no motivation” nutzos will never understand .
They’d rather see the “bills paid now” present as opposed to see the future from a broad, overall viewpoint.
Yours truly has obviously never been that way. And it hasn’t been easy. Still isn’t (in terms of dealing with the BS sometimes, which is probably why for the most part I live ... A-frigging-LONE!).
Yes, you heard me.
Alone works best a lot of times, and especially with all the Nazi feminists running riot everywhere ...
But really guilt trips – and the other side of the coin – shaming.
When I started to write books, the reaction from family and friends was (and unfortunately, this is what happens most of the time to EVERYONE, yes, including most of the biggest successes you hear about TODAY) “You? How dare you!”
(Or, how can you!)
And hence what I keep saying about following the Napoleon Hill dictum of “Tell the world what you’re going to do, but SHOW it first!”
If you invert the order, you’re playing into their hands . . .
And the shaming part starts when the person doesnt listen to all the (usually utter hogwash and BS) advice he’s (unwanted advice at that) given.
I cannot tell you how many times thats happened to me.
But the way I see it is this, bro.
They’re going to shame you anyway (the nuts).
They’re going to guilt trip you anyway.
So ... rather than try appease a bunch of idiots and morons, why not just buckle down, take it, and keep doing your thing anyway?
Believe me, once these bozos see RESULTS in front of them, their tune will change.
And I can relate. I can relate
Not only that – what matters in life ultimately is what works for YOU.
IF writing erotica works for you, so be it.
If sitting in your man cave making money without leaving the house works for you, SO BE IT.
If working a dead end full time job turns you on ... so BE IT.
NO-ONE, I repeat, NO-ONE has the right to tell YOU how to live your life, NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION MIGHT BE!
Ultimately, we can only take care of others once we take care of our own selves.
And thats a truism the bozos cannot escape either.
Anyway, fitness wise the lesson is obvious.
One, do what it takes to stay in shape.
But two, and more importantly, don’t get suckered into QUITTING by the shamers, pooh poohers, and the nuts that claim “it’s their way thats the best or the highway”.
Make your OWN decision.
And base them on RESULTS.
It’s also obvious that the goops will show up saying “oh, thats childish! How could that ever work!”
Same thing for the chest puffers and handstand pushups and the profoundly idiotic bench press exercise.
Or, any decent bodyweight exercise for that matter.
Stick to your guns, my friend. You’re in it for the long haul, and for YOURSELF.
And at the end of the day, THAT is what really counts – and MATTERS!
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PS #2 - And as for the idiots that talk about plans until the cows come home, and thinking about plans until they can't think no mo, and disregarding gut feeling, which at the end of the day is really what counts, here's the Tyson quote I like to pull out.
":Everyone's got a plan until ... they get PUNCHED in the mouth!"
Sage, my friend. Sage indeed!