I believe that was what my mom told me, i.e."thats a very superficial existence" - back in 2003 when I told her how I did everything online, etc.
No reason given, of course.
"Because she said it".
Now, despite most of everything else I says - this one?
I think it DEPENDS - on the PERSON.
Let me start out with a quote from a girl Helen I often chat with online.
"Why is that every conversation with you starts out easy, then descends into SUPER SERIOUS stuff I dont even talk about with my husband"?
I think not... Hehe.
Or, the various ladies in various sorts of relationships I've chatted with ... been with ... and so forth ...
I know, I know.
"Lothario", as I've been called. Hehe.
Or, as Helen told me.
"you're really so bad!"
Bad boy I've always been, since birth. Hehe.
Maybe I attracted so many women to me, because I never tried!
Thats the secret right there, except no-one will believe it.
Anyway, point of this ..
These days, we're seeing people trot out the "we like to meet offline" and talk "in person" nonsenseical excuse, now if they really MEANT IT?
I would agree.
Trouble is, they dont.
If you talk to them in a way it benefits THEM?
They'll talk to you online all day, and never ever want anything offline.
Try it, and see. Hehe.
Money, business whatever it is.
It is the fact that business is down, people are panicked and scared - and many other things that people are not acting normal, and are making all sorts of silly excuses about not getting back to messages, etc.
These SAME people that are too busy are watching videos on Instagram from morning till night - THAT is what people are really doing (or the Wechat equivalent).
THAT is what it turning people - into more of a Bozo than ever before (remember, videos, dumbphones- all of this kills your imagination).
But more than that, back to superficial.
Is the phone superficial, Mom - I wanted to ask her at the time, but never did.
Is flirting online superfiicial?
Is flirting to begin with superficial?
I dont know why I used flirting as an example, but you can replace it with what you want . . .
The answer is, NO.
It depends upon the PERSON.
True, in most cases for the Bozos out there, meaningless conversation.
But if everything not in person is superficical, then why not discard the good ole fashioned phone too, where you literally twirled the "lovely" dial and "dialed up people"?
I'm dating myself, I know.
But I'm sure YOU guys remember those days!
My grandfather had one of them on his desk, I'd often call my aunt, I dont know, old fashioned, but with the "HMT" watch he gave me, it will always be a prized memory!
Old school, old fashioned I am, but UBER modern too in most regards.
Therein lies the dichotomy, or perhaps none.
I'm just too brutally honest, which is why people cannot stand me - the vast bulk.
Those that can, dont just stand me - they love me.
And on that note, I'm out.
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And remember, these superficial comments come from people who imagine life "to be a grind" and "nothing comes "easy"".
And so forth ...
Apparently the easy life is "bad".
Again, two sides to that coin.
Nothing comes easy, but the goal should be to work your tail off so it DOES come easy!
Fact of life, and if you sitting there reading are saying you want a life "we have SOOOOOOOO Many problems!" - as opposed to a hassle free existence, well, I'm sorry to say, but you;re lying.
OK, out for now!
And that link again!